This post is sponsored by Naked Juice. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
What began last August as an effort to incorporate 20 minutes of daily meditation into the start of each day has evolved into something of a miracle morning routine in more recent months.
I've hinted at the structure of my mornings in interviews and features but figured it was about time I share the ins, the outs, and the nitty-gritty details right here.
Years ago, if you told me I'd grow up to call myself a 'morning person', I would have said you were crazy.
In high school, I was the girl who would rise groggily at 6 a.m. only after I'd snoozed my alarm about 11 times and my mom was enthusiastically singing her morning person song—"I feel wonderful, I feel marvelous, I feel stupendous"—right outside my door.
Why so sleepy? Most weeknights I had dance class until 9:30 p.m. and would do homework afterwards, which meant I typically didn't fall asleep until around midnight. In the mornings, I'd stumble down the stairs, toss my jeans in the dryer (I liked having "crispy", dryer-fresh jeans in high school), and hop in the shower.
Without fail, at some point between showering and heading out the door, I'd make my way back to bed and "rest my eyes" for a few more minutes before being jolted awake by my anxieties about being late for school. I'm one of those if-I'm-early-I'm-on-time, if-I'm-on-time-I'm-late people.
In college, I had spurts of being a morning person, but it was either because 1) I had to be (e.g., one semester I signed up for all 8 a.m. classes) or 2) black coffee...lots of it.
But old habits die hard.
Fresh out of college, I worked at an investment firm downtown and made a habit out of napping on the train ride from the suburbs to the city. While everyone else was energetically reading the paper and whistling show tunes, my idea of a productive morning involved a drool-free train nap and a wrinkleless pencil skirt.
I was battling major anxiety at that particular point in my life (cookbook intro has full story, if you're curious), so even though I was getting a solid eight hours of sleep every night, I could barely keep my eyes open come morning.
In graduate school, it was much of the same.
However, shortly after going vegetarian, I began to enjoy the morning hours more and more.
Strange.
Whether this shift was due to a bolt of maturity at the ripe age of 26, learning to overcome anxiety, the foods I was (and wasn't) eating, or a combination of all three, we'll never know.
I'll tell you one thing though: since going vegan three years ago, I've become the morning person of all morning people. So much so, that I occasionally annoy my not-so-morning-person husband with my sunshiny pre-dawn energy. Honest to goodness, there are days when I annoy myself.
How did I, the once a.m.-averse, turn into someone who not only enjoys the morning hours but thrives in them?
Great question. Before we dig into that, let me first say that there's one small catch to this newfound discovery of a.m. energy...
Without a thoughtful approach to the day, my energy runs high early on but majorly dwindles by mid-afternoon. This is precisely where that miracle morning routine comes in...
I've learned how to harness that morning rush of energy so that I'm better able to strike while the iron is hot once I sit down to work.
The key? I slow down before I speed up.
In fact, in recent months I've done my best to forget about speeding up, grinding, and hustling altogether and have been choosing to flow deliberately instead.
Sounds counterintuitive, doesn't it? I thought so too, but I've never felt happier, more productive, and more well-rooted in my life, and I swear it's because of this leisurely "miracle morning" routine.
Quick disclaimer: In this particular season of my life, I'd love nothing more than to implement the following routine every morning, but life happens and sometimes when life happens routines lose their meaning. There are certainly days when this routine doesn't serve me. In those instances, I flow with the circumstances, embrace the pieces of the routine that fit, and allow the others to fall away without judging the release of them.
Bottom line: No routine, no biggie. Self-compassion, life happens.
Now that we've cleared that up, onward and upward (or downward, in this instance) to this seven-step miracle morning routine...
1. Rise + Shower (And Shine, too)
I’m more motivated, balanced, and optimistic with an early and self-reflective start, so I typically wake sometime between 5:30am and 6:30 a.m. but will absolutely sleep in if my body needs it. For instance, last Thursday I was feeling a little sleepy and slept in until 7:30 a.m. There have been points in my life when I felt a tremendous sense of guilt for "sleeping in" past 7 a.m., but I've learned what a silly waste of energy it is to take that perspective. Each of us has an internal guidance system, right? Right. Well, sometimes what that guidance system says more loudly and clearly than anything is, "Rest, my darling," and we best follow suit.
So, instead of forcing our way through life by resisting the waves and insisting that the water must be smooth, measured, predictable; why not learn to ride the waves and flow with them?
Rise and grind? Forget it.
Hustle? Honey, no.
You do you. If it feels like you're grinding against your own gears, ease up. If it feels effortless and flowy, keep at it.
Relax more than you rush. Rise, flow, and let go of the need to control. Whenever I lose sight of this relaxed way of being and need a reminder, I read this.
2. Get Ready + Listen
I'm a podcast junkie, and there's nothing I love more than throwing on an inspiring podcast while doing my makeup, hair, etc. My go-to's are: Tim Ferriss, Jess Lively, and Jonathan Fields' Good Life Project, but I subscribe to more than I can keep up with and often bop around to others as well (e.g., Alan Watts Podcast, On Being with Krista Tippett, Minute Physics, etc.).
Through years of listening, the two things I've been reminded of more than anything are: 1) It's usually the people I'm not familiar with (read: the people I have zero expectations for) that deliver the most profound wisdom—or perhaps it's just that I can hear it better when I'm not looking for the message I'm expecting. 2) The vast majority of happy, joyful, and "successful" people meditate.
Which leads me to the next part of this routine...
3. Matcha + Meditate
Once I’m ready for the day, I head straight to the kitchen and make myself a matcha latté. Once an avid coffee drinker turned chai-tea sipper, I hopped on the matcha train a few months back and there's been no turning back. Unlike the buzzy, wound-up, frenetic sensation that coffee elicits, matcha's kick is steady, stable, focused, consistent, and composed.
Side note: the crunchy treats floating atop the glass are the Power Biscotti from my cookbook.
Once I've sipped down some matcha, I plop myself down and meditate.
I've mentioned this before, but for years I had a highly inconsistent meditation practice. Then, one morning last August, I glanced at my favorite meditation spot and that inner guidance system I mentioned above said loudly and clearly, "Just sit your butt down. Not tomorrow, not next week, NOW." So I did. Ever since, I've made meditation a priority in my daily routine.
Whether it's fifteen minutes or five, any amount of time spent quieting that internal chatter is time well spent.
4. Eat Breakfast, Drink Juice
After meditating, I eat breakfast. Fueling and hydrating early on is essential to creating a consistent energy flow throughout the day. For breakfast, I usually have a smoothie, avocado toast, or oats with berry compote along with a glass of pressed juice. I typically reach for veggie-based juices with a bit of green apple or other mildly sweet fruits.
Some weeks, I make a big batch of homemade juice on Sunday to sip on throughout the week; other weeks, I stock up on bottles of store-bought pressed juice. Whether you're juicing at home or purchasing bottles, the cost can add up. However, I've found that a small 6-ounce glass of juice is plenty, so four 12-ounce bottles gets me through an entire week. Instead of looking at it as an added expense, I look at it as an investment in myself.
As far as which type of juice, lately, I've been loving Naked Pressed Botanical Juices. An extension of Naked Pressed (Naked Juice's cold-pressed juices), Naked Pressed Botanical Juices are a blend of vegetables, fruits, and pure botanical oils (e.g., lavender, lemongrass). They're cold-pressed and shipped immediately to ensure the highest quality, freshest juice. Plus, they're free from added sugar and preservatives, and verified by the Non-GMO Project, which is always a plus.
I'm usually not much of a beet juice lover, but their Botanical Apples to Lavender—a blend of apple, cucumber, beet, cranberry, lemon, passionfruit, and lavender oil—is my go-to at the moment. The earthiness of the beets is tamed by the subtle sweetness of the fruits, and the soft lavender notes linger and soothe. Drinking it feels peaceful.
The Botanical Citrus Lemongrass—a blend of orange, apple, cucumber, pineapple, spinach, lemon, passionfruit, and lemongrass oil—is also amazing. Bright, citrusy, and packed with vitamin K.
5. Read or Watch for Inspiration
While enjoying breakfast, I read up on a topic of curiosity or watch a few inspiring videos. Right now, I'm alternating between the books Daring Greatly by Brené Brown and This Is It by Alan Watts. I'm also loving this Youtube channel and the always fascinating Brain Pickings.
The only goal within this portion of the morning is to get into alignment (as the lovely Jess Lively would say), and the best way to do this is to simply engage with something that brings you joy.
Just eight months ago, I would have thought this was a huge time waster. Whaddabout the hustle? But I've been doing this for a little over two months now, and it's been a game changer. I've found that once I'm in alignment, the tasks I usually dread (e.g., morning email check) flow effortlessly and joyfully, too. Honest to goodness, cross my heart.
6. Write to Intuition
This hasn't yet taken hold as a daily practice for me, but it's become an ever increasingly important part of my life. This is a big topic to tackle within the confines of a paragraph or two, and I'd love to write a separate post on this at some point in the future. The long and the short of it is that I write down a question to my intuition in a journal I keep and allow the answer to flow through me.
If you're knew to this idea, there's no doubt that it sounds crazy and woo woo to you. It did to me too. My first go at writing to my intuition was a few years ago, and the experience weirded me out majorly, but I've grown to trust in and lean on the process regularly to unearth answers to the trickier questions.
I'm passing the mic to Jess Lively left and right today but seriously, girl has a strong handle on this process and is an excellent resource for anyone looking to tap into their inner wisdom.
7. Work it
Once all those good morning vibes are harnessed, I get to work.
And that's it. Contrary to what my must-hustle, overachiever mind predicted would happen, I've been more productive than ever these past few months. Even better, I've been happier too. So, so happy. Not for any one reason in particular but simply because I'm allowing myself to be and to exist within each moment as opposed to forcing my way through to the next one.
Karlie says
This post is amazing! Gah I loved every minute and can't wait to incorporate snippets into my mornings. I am slowly piecing together a morning routine and noticing how it makes my days less and less.. frantic? Stressful? Strange how working less in the morning results in more productive days. xx
Ashley says
Completely agree, Karlie! It almost feels weird (wrong even?) that working less in the morning results in more productive days. It's like we have to un-train years and years of the "no pain, no gain" mentality, right? Total honesty, there are days when I still get a bit tripped up on that! Thanks for sharing your insights. Would love to hear how things continue to unfold for you! xo
Jennifer says
I need help setting and sticking with a Morning Routine! This was a great post! The juices look amazing and those colors are so vibrant! The foods looked just as amazing! Yum! Lovely blog you have here! I think this is the first time I have stopped by and commented. I am sure I will be back!
Ashley says
Thanks for taking the time to comment, Jennifer! So glad you did. I think we all need help sticking to the routines that are often most beneficial for us (I certainly do at least). Probably because the idea that success and pain/hustle/grind go hand-in-hand is engrained in us and makes us think that we're doing it wrong if our path is joyful, flowy, effortless. How crazy is that?!
Lili says
thanks for this post! will def look into the podcast recommendation, as I am a huge fan of Alan Watts :)
I also practice morning pages, journaling (for the last two years) has definitely changed my life . Still not really a morning person though, night owl is my natural state. I've actually developed a night routine that keeps me grounded with a lot of blissful basil soups for dinner (approved by Blake) believe it or not...
miss you!
Lili
Ashley says
You're welcome, Lili! Didn't realize you were an Alan Watts fan—let's please go deep on his wisdom the next time we're together. Such a brilliant being. Would love to hear more about your morning journaling, too. It's so refreshing to hear how others approach the day and which routines stick/jive. Miss you bunches.
Sarah | Well and Full says
Reading this was really inspiring. I was just thinking today that I need a better daily routine. Since my work and my nutrition classes are online, I work from home and have no set schedule (unless I make one for myself). I'm more of a rise and grind type of person, and I tend to slow down in the evenings. But you gotta do what works for you, right? And I'm definitely feeling inspired to create a better routine :)
Ashley says
Working from home is mostly a blessing but also a tiny bit of a curse, isn't it? Finding the daily groove and schedule takes a whole lot of work. I've learned sometimes it's as much about having a set list of to-not-do's as it is a list of to-do's. As backwards as it sounds, this slower-paced morning routine has helped me become more deliberate and decisive when it comes to work. Instead of hemming and hawing about the "right" or "wrong" thing to work on, the most logical path seems obvious and I take it without giving it another thought. It also inspired me to make a recurring weekly schedule for blogging (happy to send it to you if you're interested). Knowing what to expect every day has been a relief.
Side note: Congrats on pursuing your nutrition degree. Such an inspiration.
Celeste Jackson says
Great way to start your day. I like to call it "waking up gently." I think you're right when you say that your vegan diet has helped. In the last couple of weeks I have been refraining from meat, dairy and eating a plant based diet and definitely feel a difference....thanks to your inspiration!
Ashley says
"Waking up gently"—love that. Always admire your ability to take morning downtime, mom. You make it a priority to take care of yourself so that you're better able to take care of everyone else. Love you.
Celeste Jackson says
I should add that I have been juicing in the morning. I wasn't aware of these particular juices from Naked. I will definitely look into them. Thank you!
lisa says
I just stumbled onto your blog and am in seriously love! You have such a refreshing voice. I love this post. I'm trying so hard to get my morning started right (a little hard with a 2 year old) but I do find that if I can focus on myself for a bit before she's up, the whole day unfolds better. Now, off to look at some of those podcasts!!
Ashley says
Thanks for your kind words, Lisa. They mean so much.
If there's one thing this routine has taught me more than anything, it's that its practice is most helpful during the times when it's the hardest to slow down and fit it in. The irony, right? I can only imagine how much trickier it becomes to find "me time" with a precious little one, and although I don't have any myself yet, I've noticed I'm better able to be fully present, supportive, empathic, etc. (all the best stuff) for my husband, family, friends, etc. when I make time for myself. When I'm reminded of those benefits in particular, it motivates me to stick to it. Enjoy the podcasts and have a beautiful weekend! xo
Alexa Rehm says
I love everything about this post! The hustle is starting to wear me down recently, and I've been desperately searching around for vibrant ways to live and move (and as you said, flow), and finding them in beautiful pockets and places. Your morning routine sounds like it could be one of these places! I am especially interested about the writing to my intuition--could you please explain more about how that works? (Feel free to email me, if you need/want to!). I love writing (write a food blog, writing degree, etc.!!), so this method of morning reflection sounds like it could be just what I've been searching for. I also would love to know how you meditate/what you do, as I love the idea of meditating but have trouble actually practicing it. But whenever I do give even 10 minutes to meditating, it makes me feel so wonderful and refreshed! Do you use videos, or specific breathing models? Would love any suggestions :)
This was such a bright, invigorating post--thank you for sharing it! It's 10pm, but now I'm feeling bright and ready to start the day after reading all of your morning wisdom!
Ashley says
Hi, Alexa! Thank you for taking time out of your day to share. Completely hear you on the hustle wearing you down. I've been in and out of that place far too many times in recent years. The great thing about knowing where you don't want to be is that you're able to discover where you do want to be. I'm not sure I would have found my way to this routine or been open to it had I not felt burnt out. The silver lining, right?
I've received a few questions about the intuition piece, so I'm going to share a separate post on that in the coming weeks. For meditation, I jump around a bit depending on my mood. If I'm looking for a quick and straightforward practice, I use Headspace (app), but most often I feel like something more spiritually rooted in which case I use Oprah & Deepak Chopra's 21-Day Meditation Experience (app). Twice a year (or maybe three times), they offer a free 21-day meditation experience, which is what initially got me hooked. You can also buy any of the meditation experiences. They're a little pricey but completely worth the investment if you like their style (think you can test a few options). I own just one (Energy of Attraction) and have used it on repeat for the last two years. I've also been eyeing the "Finding Your Flow" series. If you're into guided meditation with a more spiritual foundation, I'd recommend this route. On the other hand, if you're looking for a more rational-minded stepping stone into meditation, Headspace is a great way to go.
Hope this is helpful!
With love and appreciation,
A
Ashley says
Hi, Alexa! Hope you're doing well. Just wanted to circle back to let you know that a very long and thorough post detailing how to write to your intuition will be live on the blog tomorrow morning (4/19)! Hope you find it to be helpful! xo
Rosie says
I loved this! I've opened a load of tabs off the back of your suggestions so hopefully, I now have loads more podcasts and a couple of books to read! The main reason I wanted to comment is because I recently discovered Jess Lively and I'm in LOVE with everything that she has to say. I feel so much lighter and like life is starting to make more sense and I feel happier and less frustrated in life. She is just amazing!
Ashley says
Thanks for your sweet comment, Rosie! Hope you enjoy the other podcasts. Jess is full of wisdom, isn't she? Happy listening! xo
Connie says
Love this post (yeah, I'm late to the table, I've been loving your cookbook and that, in turn, prompted me to check out even more recipes on your website). I definitely need to add more intentionality to my mornings, and have been wanting to incorporate yoga and/or meditation. I also appreciate the YouTube channel link. Who knows, maybe someday I can become a morning person, too (-: Thanks for the inspiration!
Natasha says
Hi Ashley,
I love this post so much I've gone back to it unconsciously for the second time and it was just as interesting as the first time :) How is your morning ritual now-days? Have you incorporated anything new?